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Fall Check-in

Fall Check-in

Hi. Thanks for checking in. Nothing new to report.Still in this self-imposed isolation. Although that isn't entirely true. It is more like biological house-arrest. My poor system still has a Venn diagram of a migraine, the flu, and nerve weirdness. ALL THE TIME. Which...

Fair Tidings!

And welcome to my memoir from suburban hermithood

Hi. I’m Kelly. I am quite unwell — with a mystery. Could be long covid or chronic lyme or auto-immune or neurological or maybe my system just decided to strike. For decades I carried my camera everywhere, walked marathon lengths for fun, had planners packed with social engagements, hosted epic parties, adventured around the globe, owned a successful photography business… And then I got sick…

And then I got sicker… Who knows? Maybe my system will rebound or stay like this or continue to flare and fade? — Meanwhile, I’m finding ways to contentedly cope whilst convalescing indefinitely. The outside world hurts right now; the light and the noise and the action. But I’m doing okay when I’m inside my own little self-made suburban cocoon. Sooo — I’m just going to chill in here for awhile. I’ve got some processing to do and sometimes write. Just for me. But if anyone likes tldrs… Put the kettle on! Find a comfy spot and —

aside to my dear framily, kelcam clients, and concerned kinfolk

No matter who we are to each other in real life — whether it be life-long besties or old chums or quasi-acquaintances or randos on the web — please don’t feel any obligation to read these for my sake. At all. Ever. I imagine that I become very smackable very quickly. I even annoy myself. So if scanning these brings joy or comfort or perspective, awesome. Follow along! It means a lot to me! Thank You! But if it ever seems even a smidge like a chore or irritation or too much –for any reason– Just don’t! It doesn’t mean you don’t miss me or that we won’t re-bond outside the cocoon. It just means you aren’t vibing with this quirky hobby of mine right now. Maybe later. Or never. And that is very much okay.

PSA:  My lifemate & the kids really don’t follow my blog — they’ve got quite enough musings IRL.
Rather than making things awkward — simply bid me well 😉

Kelly’s caboodle of tldrs:

Fall Check-in

Fall Check-in

Hi. Thanks for checking in. Nothing new to report.Still in this self-imposed isolation. Although that isn't entirely true. It is more like biological house-arrest. My poor system still has a Venn diagram of a migraine, the flu, and nerve weirdness. ALL THE TIME. Which...

fog lights

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